LEARN TO FORGIVE.
Learning to forgive is something that very many people don't know how to do but DEMAND that others do it without hesitation or reservation. People for some reason find it easy to create and hold on to GRUDGES. Grudges serve no purpose to no one other that the holder. It serves to CREATE more MISERY and ANGER. Nothing good comes from holding a Grudge, as it prevents any good work to be done on the relationship.
I make mistakes all the time. YOU make mistakes all the time. I forgive when someone trespasses against me. YOU CAN FORGIVE when others do something against you. It's called Mercy.
So you can sit there remaining angry at someone who has long since forgiven you or you can join them and forgive and move the relationship to a healthy place (whatever and wherever it may be).
Forgiving also removes undo and VERY UNNECESSARY stress and brings an overall feeling of refreshing renewal. And that's a good thing. And that's when the real healing can begin.
If you have trespassed against me (in some form or fashion) I Forgive You,
Dave
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