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CANDOR
For those that are not too sure on what CANDOR means, well you're in luck.
Here is the Oxford Languages definition: "the quality of being open and honest in expression; frankness."
Before anyone gets all bent out of shape let me be perfectly clear. Let me be frank.
CANDOR is a double edged sword.
Everyone expects candor in their conversations.
However, there are two sides of candor.
There are those that speak with great candor without hesitation and reservation.
Of those individuals, the moment candor is given back to them, they "lose their $hit". How dare anyone speak to them with such candor?
Proceed with caution?
NEVER, You stand your ground and whether they like it or not (that's on them).
Deliver your words with such candor (but don't over do it) and eventually they will realize it is normal for you and nothing will change that.
Again, Be You...Whether They Like It or Not, again that's on them!
-David Guerra
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